“Never the spirit was born; the spirit will cease to be never. Never was a time when it was not; end and beginning are dreams.
Birthless and deathless and changeless remaineth the spirit forever. Death hath not touched it at all, dead though the house of it seems.” Bhagavad Gita
Death
When I was a child, I often missed school because someone in our family had died. There was the long bus ride with my mum to her hometown. It was always cold. I remember we had to change buses twice. When we got to the church, there were people dressed in black clothes, a somber, chilling and depressing atmosphere, and the stench of chrysanthemums. I will never forget it. It was horrible.
Growing up, I thought about death a lot. What it was, and why it was…. and I pondered long on an Irish saying I had heard. “Shed a tear at a birth and sing a song at a death.” Or the Cherokee saying: “When you were born, you cried, and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice.”
The bundle of remembrance
Death is a taboo subject. Something we don’t want to talk about or explore. Something we’d rather forget until it comes knocking on a door that is close to us. And suddenly we are confronted by our own mortality. Humanity is a collector and spends a lifetime accumulating; money, property, power, experience, knowledge, titles, hopes and dreams etc. And with a stroke, death wipes it all away. It is a personal apocalypse for the ego. The path of no return.
The stories we tell ourselves
Because man could not face his ending, his obliteration, he created gods and goddesses, saints, resurrections, heaven and hell and re-incarnation. Made up stories called religions to manage the terror of extinction, and in the face of death his utterly meaningless life.
Man made
Religion is the result of theory thinking. It is built by thought and thought worships itself through the symbols and rituals it created. The word religion comes from the Latin verb religare which means to bind, to shackle, to tie.
Religion – A man-made doctrine that eclipses our personal spiritual evolution and distorts the very meaning of compassion.
And, as we look at the tragedy called life, the slaughterhouse, we ask ourselves is there anything beyond death? Is there anything that is sacred beyond space and time? Something real! Something not created out of man’s fear, sorrow and spiritual loneliness, and his need to control.
Death – a different perspective
“The acceptance of the eternal nature of the soul/spirit is fundamental in the change of consciousness now taking place. We are called on to re-think death and abandon the dread, gloom and fear associated with the word. We have no word in our language to express the wondrous process of release into light. The re-emergence of the spiritual world in our awareness leads to an inner certainty of the imperishable nature of the spirit.” Sir George Trevelyan.
Separation
In today’s world, human life is not looked at as a whole experience, a holistic event. Instead, life is broken up into fragments, compartments, divisions. We enter life as a child, we become adolescents, in our prime, middle aged, old aged and exit.
The continuum of life is a complete experience like night and day, sleeping and wakefulness. And from a death perspective when there is an ending, there is also the beginning of something else.
Do you see this?
Metaphysically, death is followed by life. But life of what?
The ego I am
Our personal consciousness is made up of its contents. The content of our consciousness is our life, our conditioning, our religion, our politics, disappointments and triumphs, likes and dislikes, sorrow and loneliness, etc. This bundle of remembrance is the accumulated ‘me’, the ego, the personality. And to the ‘me’ death becomes a terrible thing, the annihilation of all accumulated everything, a meaningless ending to its life.
Collective consciousness
No matter what colour, race or creed we are, mankind shares the same consciousness, the same set of programmes. Psychologically we are driven, anxious, confused, imitating, complying and conforming, fearful and uncertain. Even when our body dies the consciousness stream of mankind goes on in the living physical world. It is as if this stream is mechanized to work in a certain way.
Stepping out
It is only when we can step out of self, free ourselves from the accumulated baggage of the past, and the hopes and dreams of the future that we liberate ourselves from the significance of death. Our mind is no longer cluttered. It is free to merge with spiritual reality and the One Life which is at the heart of All.
The heart of it all
The core of our being, and its connection to Source Creator has nothing to do with thought and its sandcastles. In fact, to feel this essence, thought must be still, the mind quiet. When we become the essence there is serenity. The presence is the true I and is eternal, the temporary body will go back to the earth. That is inevitable so it is now that we must live, love and Be. Experience every moment as it comes in the Now, the only moment we are truly alive.
“Death must be a very strange fact. As life is, with its abundance, with its richness, with its varieties, fullness, so must death be. Death, surely, must bring with it a newness, a freshness, an innocence. But to comprehend that vast issue, the mind must obviously be free from fear.”
“When we die, the mind is no longer accumulating. It is not dead. It is not static. It is no longer experiencing, it no longer cluttered by thought. It is so alive there is nothing to collect.”
To die implies having no continuity of thought | J. Krishnamurti (jkrishnamurti.org)
Is there something more beyond this body? Still the mind. Stop thinking and you will find out.
Until next time. Stay in love with your life.
“Ah! Fill the Cup. What boots it to repeat – How Time is slipping underneath our feet. Unborn Tomorrow and dead Yesterday. Why fret about them if Today be sweet? Fitzgerald.
Elva Thompson was born in England in 1947 and moved to Rosebud Lakota reservation in 1987. She is the author of the Heartstar Series; Book One: The Key made of Air, Book Two: The Gates to Pandemonia, and Book Three: Walking In Three Worlds. Her other interests include organic gardening, ancient phonetic languages, sonic sound and their application in the healing arts. She is also a medical intuitive and teaches sonic re-patterning using sound, colour, and essential oils. Elva Thompson is on Amazon Author Central @ amazon.com/author/heartstar
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ethompson
April 4, 2023 at 10:34 pmMuch love. Play the music….
ariel
April 5, 2023 at 6:56 amYup! ‘Society’ has really m-messed up the death process, latterly. Why DO people allow themselves to be swept along by the Mechanised Mechanoid Pseudo- Pharmaceutical Disease-o-matic medical Machine Monstrosity process, which has become institutionalised to the point where if the NHS were not alleged to be collapsing you would expect and be expected to believe that this soul-destroying operation is the ONLY WAY OUT of this state we are prone to calling ‘life,’ although I strongly believe plus some experience, that this is such a shrunken ex=plan-ation/ex-piation/ex-piration (pirated) so weak and incomplete that it’s not worth the paper it isn’t printed on.
But that’s what our carefully programmed society gives us. An apology for having lived, maybe?
Generally, you finish up WRECKED. Poisoned! Stripped bare in a room or a ward somewhere, connected to their equipment via tubes, maybe with your accumulated pain blocked out by fentanyl or similar. Will you, are you going to take it with you if you don’t balance the books before you breathe your last?
Go for dignified instead. We do handle the death process here. Maggie and Mike in the last two years, and they are buried in one of the top fields.
Death is a holy, a sacred part of the process. You breathed IN, you breathe OUT. First and last cry.
xxxxxx
ethompson
April 5, 2023 at 5:20 pm“But that’s what our carefully programmed society gives us. An apology for having lived, maybe?” Wow! You insightful dude!
Iam
April 5, 2023 at 7:45 amBeautiful Elva!
The stigmatism of death as it is projected is so traumatic and misleading. Yet, when people live in the mind and body predominantly, it is easy to dwell there.
Perhaps one of the most insidious propaganda ever invented, associate death with fear and distract the majority from seeing and even experiencing the most powerful transitory shift we experience.
Cathy Escobedo
April 5, 2023 at 9:56 amWhen I was in my mid teens my grandfather died. I was sad that he was gone. On the day of his wake my Aunt stood as the funeral was ending and said, “Dad has a special request… he wants you all to dry your tears and go to his PARTY, a celebration of life!!” I was confused. The entire way to the wake I was wondering how we could collectively do that. Well, walking into the bar/restaurant, the room was filled with all of the people who knew him, there were MANY. I realized the energy change and spiritual lift. Stories, testimonials, gratitude and LOVE filled the room. Music and laughter is what I remembered most. At the time of that realization my dad came to me and told me that he had to go to the hospital because my brother, Eddie, was coming. My step mom gave birth. So in addition to all of the joy of the loss…we we also given the joy of the new being who would be my little brother, Eddie. The circle was presented, ingrained into my heart. This experience changed death, for me, forever. Thank you for this medicine and your masterful, thought provoking, writing. So much love Elva!!
Cathy
markfarrar
April 5, 2023 at 12:18 pmwhen my time is up , I really hope to be
aware enough and strong enough to resist ,
angels , demons , parental figures , dead relatives ,
old friends , heroes , deities or tricksters calling my name .
I will be so very pissed if I get distracted or fooled into recycling !
ethompson
April 5, 2023 at 12:23 pmThat is why we explore death while we live, Mark. Then we can consciously die.
ethompson
April 5, 2023 at 3:38 pmAll we have to do is to master the chatterer, shut it up. Then when there is no inner dialogue, and we are no longer prisoners of the voice(see my post) a new world appears. The real world not the digital simulation of duality. We can shut up the voice by vibrating faster than the frequency band of the ‘foreign installation’- the parasite that runs our lives. It is that which dies, the ego I with its brutality, sorrows, pride and prejudice, feelings of superiority and inferiority. The bundles of remembrance is what dies. And, because of energetic debt is reborn and the whole game starts again. It’s actually very horrible and not many are ready to hear it.
markfarrar
April 5, 2023 at 4:33 pmhorribly efficient way to juice the big aphids …
14 years in the police and ambulance services
taught me a lot about death , but its still the most
mysterious and subjective experience ever , in my view .
I think good death choices are always available to us though .
ethompson
April 5, 2023 at 4:37 pmI just posted ‘To Die Consciously’ I left you a comment.
markfarrar
April 8, 2023 at 5:36 amideally , I would die being struck by a lightning bolt .
thunderstorms never fail to raise my vibration
to a point of absolute awareness , acceptance and awe .